JWSA
I am sorry you are going thru this again and again and again. I know how that feels. Been thru it with my AD.
My first thought was - if she was ordered to go, what happens now? Why was she ordered to go a week ago? If she was only a few days clean how can inpatient refuse her? That is by no means long enough.
I think even if an addict is not using their mental state is very fragile and they think the whole world is against them. I don't think they understand what they do to us during their active addiction. We can forgive, but it is VERY hard to forget. And to trust. I don't have any wonderful words of wisdom or anything, but I just wanted you to know that someone is thinking about you.
Gotahavfaith