If an alcoholic was a person who lived on skid row and drank 24/7 there would not be over 400 meetings a week of AA in Beverly Hills, rofl.
Whether your mom is an alcoholic or not is something she will someday have to decide. However, it is quite obvious it is a problem for you so WELCOME TO SOBER RECOVERY. You have found a great place with folks who have been where you are now and who have moved on.
I am glad you found us, but sorry you had to . Look around, read the 'stickys' at the top of the forum and you will get some of your answers.
Love and hugs,