hi there-i cant personally offer any experience on these specific issues, but along the way in my life one thing has remained constant and that is when my gut tells me something isnt right, it probably isnt. maybe these things are customary or normal, but if you are uncomfortable you are less likely to be 100% open, honest and receptive....intuition is an amazing thing and if it doesnt jive, it doesnt jive. that is my .02 cents....additionally, i commend you for taking the step and making the commitment to broaden your recovery horizons with an addiction therapist....best of luck on your search for the right provider....take care