Some pretty good advise from everybody here, though I think I answered my own question shortly after posting this. I've battled some pretty intense desires to go drink again with barely a trigger to really set them off. I'm still early in recovery with only 4 months clean and if I can have nothing at all set off my inner drinking demons like that then really I shouldn't be adding in a new element into my life that would for good or for bad start really setting them off. I know me to well and how my mind works. So for right now I'll keep it at strictly looking, and if someone special comes along take it slow instead of trying to jump into something that can turn ugly! And yes I know to stay far away from the women who are the party girls. I would like to permanently retire those girls to the history book!