For me, I'm all about playing the field and taking it slow. My whole problem is not even grasping the concept of moderation - and I know that it applies to relationships too.
If you are one of those people who ends up in the same (bad) relationships, why not let time do its thing and take you where you need to be. I do find myself, lately especially, checking out all the gorgeous shirtless boys, though. Thanks, springtime.
I say: appreciate the eye candy but focus on your sobriety.