I actually "ended" my marriage 5 years ago. It was ok for me, very hard on him. Ive lived away from him for 2 of the last 5 years, and in the garage apartment the rest of the time. We are such good friends again, I just hate the thought of putting him through it (again><). If I could wake up and be madly in love. . .
but Ive been waiting for that to happen for years