Originally Posted by
Crazy4Him 
Ago we made the (foolish) decision to try and be friends and that's why I kept taking his calls, plus I work with him. I do see what you're saying and you're absolutely right. It's just hard. I want so badly to be truly done, I really really feel like I am.
Been there, done that, have "the scars" to prove it.
There was a girl I dated some years ago, I describe our relationship as "the relationship lasted a month, the break up lasted six months"
She wanted to be "just friends"
Didn't work out....kind of like "train wrecks" don't really work as commute tools.
All it turned into was a six month boggy confusing super slow motion train wreck that just wouldn't seem to stop.
In some cases ya just gotta walk away.
I am friends with "my exes" except for one, but in some cases it took a few years of distance.
Take care of yourself no matter what that "looks like", from here it looks like "no contact" but please, just take care of yourself, self care is NOT over rated.