Originally Posted by
SleepyCherie 
I am in counseling and am trying to work towards a better me.
The funny thing for me was no matter what I did, counseling, my 12 step meetings, etc etc etc, until I made a firm commitment to no more relationships, period while I was working on that 'better' me, well, you get the idea.
I say keep doing what you're doing. It's obviously working for you, no?
I did, until I got tired of beating my head against the wall. I don't think you're there yet, but I could be wrong.
