Originally Posted by
Happiness Fairy 
Freedom, it is so hard to live in the moment, but you are totally right! It's all about changing my thinking. And yes, it helps to keep telling myself that it's the best for the kids. I, too, grew up in an alcoholic/codependent family and I want to stop the cycle right here. My kids deserve better!
I promise you, if you just keep working on living in the moment, it
will get easier!
The beauty of having recovery for ourselves is we can break that cycle, hon. Your kids are very blessed to have you for a mom! :ghug :ghug