thanks Mike, I will take that last bit and apply it right now!! i guess that is what i am dealing with, like they are trying to BAIT me! Hahahahahahaha!!! I have been teetering on whether to chomp down on it or try to make it a nonissue-i would prefer a nonissue-except for the fact it is a pattern which i just escaped from my last job..and viola! here it is again, reincarnated!! i need to remind myself that i do not wish to get caught up in the triangulation.....thanks again. lots to positively work on now.
