Thank you for the encouragment everyone! I am sticking with my boundary. Its so frustrating that he doesn't get it! And I'm trying to get rid of the bitterness i feel towards him cuz I know its not a healthy thing for me to be hanging onto but thats hard too. My 8 yr old is from previous marriage and he doesn't care for my husband at all. I also found out that im about 10 wks pregnant and im worried about the health of baby cuz all the stress has really taken a toll on my body, haven't been eating well at all and smoking alot. I sure don't want to bring another child into this chaos so ive got to get myself together and seperate myself from his problems.