Hey Cessy68, All I can say is at least your son is using condoms, I guess it could be worse if he weren't. Maybe you shouldn't allow him to have girls in the house when your not home. These kids today, just drive us nuts. What a generation.
Winnie, my heart goes out to you for your son, he is so young, and already in so much trouble with the law, and everything. Poor kid, just refuses to learn his lesson. So mentally he is 10. What a shame. The duct tape thing is a great idea. I sure wish I would have tried that with my son. I'm so tired of all the heartache. Winnie, hang in there, I think your doing the right thing by showing some tough love. If your son keeps making these poor decisions for himself, why should you run yourself ragged. Showing him you mean business, will probably be the thing that turns him around and in the right direction.