Old 05-03-2004, 09:08 PM
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DefofLov
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Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Proud Upstate New Yorker
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Re: Help! I feel so alone and unsupported . . .



Hi there,

I know you are hurting, you are frustrated, you are lonely. First, you must know that you are not responsible for him and what he is putting you through. You have done nothing to deserve such harsh treatment and such a huge responsibility. You cannot be responsible for his life and actions, even when he does not take his prescription. There is no immediate solution to your problems. You just have to keep working the program. Work on boundaries and detatchement. work on putting yourself and your children first. His problem will end when he is ready to solve it. You cant make him do it. I know you love him very much and wish the best for him but that is all you can do. I wish you the best.

((((((hugz)))))

~Def
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