Unhappy...
I know where you are coming from, I myself tried so many different tactics to try and make my AH stop. Like you my health was going down with him. You probably like me, I did not know how addicts work, what drugs can do, then one day you are face first with it. I didn't do a lot of things right either, but I truly didn't get it until I tried many crazy tactics and not one of them worked. When I truly knew inside I could do no more and what I was doing was not working is when I finally started to get it, see what others that had been through it were talking about and telling me. My situation was the same as the others and my husband is and was an addict just like other addicts.
Anvilhead, I really don't think she is dramatic, she is just grasping at anything to get normal. It is a heck of a long process to get those feet walking infront of one another, I am living proof of it.
Rose