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Old 03-24-2009, 03:24 PM
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Originally Posted by UNHAPPY777 View Post
Okay SR I need some advice........

I thought about planning an intervention for my AH as a last ditch effort, but I am undecided. I thought what would be better for him was to get some burial info and have him to pick out his casket, where he wants to be buried at, what I should wear, and what his daughters and one son should wear, and maybe what he would like to tell them after he isa gone... I NEED TO KNOW FRIENDS>>>>>>>>>>>Would I be going over board or is it worth a try?
I don't know, I tried everything myself, manipulating, shaming, pleading, yelling, ignoring, setting boundaries, leaving, coming back. And I'm sure I left some things out there, we codies can be so inventive.

Nothing worked, but when I left, I started feeling better.
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