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Old 03-23-2009, 01:00 PM
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Freedom1990
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Had a long talk with my sponsor today about boundaries. Coincidence? I think not!

Codependency can really rear its ugly head for me as I'm sponsoring other gals in AA.

I dropped a sponsee (as opposed to trying to hang in there till I'm down and out).

She knows I'll be there as a friend in AA, but she'll have to find another sponsor.

After almost drinking herself to death last week, she's completely back-peddled, and is right back to doing exactly what got her drunk after 3 years sober before.

I've got other gals who are willing to do the work.

I'm back to basics and taking care of me first.
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