Had a long talk with my sponsor today about boundaries. Coincidence? I think not!
Codependency can really rear its ugly head for me as I'm sponsoring other gals in AA.
I dropped a sponsee (as opposed to trying to hang in there till I'm down and out).
She knows I'll be there as a friend in AA, but she'll have to find another sponsor.
After almost drinking herself to death last week, she's completely back-peddled, and is right back to doing exactly what got her drunk after 3 years sober before.
I've got other gals who are willing to do the work.
I'm back to basics and taking care of me first.