But I tried all the other stuff several times over the past couple of years. One time I threw all his stuff, clothes, tools, and all....out in the driveway & called and told him what I did, and to pick them up. The stuff sat there for 4 days, got rained on and I finally gave in and brought them back in my breezeway.......ugh. My daughter calls it a peeing contest.....he does this, I do that. He knows I'll do this or that, so he deliberately manipulates to get me worked up.
He can't manipulate you if you don't participate. If the tools aren't on your property, there's no reason you need to communicate with him.
Drop them off at the church, and that's the end of the story. Tell whoever at the church if he doesn't pick up his stuff to do whatever with it, that you are no longer responsible and to NOT contact you. The rest is up to him.
It's not on your property.
You haven't surrendered it to God; you're still handling it your way.
He can't affect you unless you allow it.