hang in there nalla....I couldnt' save my ass and my face at the same time.
Recovery is so worth it.
Me telling someone what to say or what not to say doesnt mean I have control over it.
I can make suggestions and requests and not have expectations that will set me up for disappointment.
The types of examples you have talked about (telling others what to do/say or what not to do or say) are really good examples admitting what we are powerless over.
Getting real is simple but it is not easy.
Recovery brings honesty and humility into our lives.
Stay the course,
Missy