Well, first of all, it helps to remember that counselors are there to help us figure things out, not to figure them out for us. My counselor was very wise and hit the nail on the head for me about 90% of the time. But, there were still those 10% suggestions that were totally wrong for me and my situation. She is, after all, only human. I didn't have more than one, so I didn't have to deal with mixed advice from two places, but I would guess that your personal counselor not only knows you better, but has your well-being as top priority. A marriage counselor, by definition, has the marriage as a top priority. Knowing all that, plus trusting your gut, I bet you will come to the best decision for you.
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