I dunno, dolce. I'm not a religious person at all, so I had to find a meeting where the focus was on a 'higher power' and not heavily religious. I looked around for quite a while before finding one that suited me, but I'm glad I did. I also had to try a meeting more than once....not everybody's on their "A Game" every night.....and try to keep a handle on my judgment. Even meetings with married people had something to teach me.
Counseling helped me even more, if you have a chance to do that....
Good luck