You are definitely not beyond hope! Your addiction seems TO ME to be more mental than physical. At 60-80mg a day, you are going to have a lot easier time with this than the majority of people on this site. There is no magic pill that the doctor will give you. He can help and monitor the situation though. That is, unless you want to go on methadone or suboxone which is totally your choice though I dont see as necessary. Anyway if you want a good taper schedule, let me know.
Lesley