Originally Posted by
GiveLove 
Sorry you're having to go through that, Tallulah, but I sense it might be toughening you up on a deeper level. No consolation, I know LOL but the quacking always served a purpose for me -- letting me see the ridiculous situation I was leaving. If he were rational, kind, and loving, would it be easy to leave?
You're doing great.
Hugs,
Gl
That's ok GL. It actually did me some good. No doubt he will take my walking out as 'dramatic' (as he does with most of what I do or say) but tbh I don't give a flying ffffff ish...
I have never seen it from this angle before. I've just always been confused by the behaviour. But he feels fear and loss of control. And instead of saying it (well apart from the odd slip of the mask) he is acting it out. What was it someone said on the forum.. 'he is shrinking in my eyes'..