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Old 03-12-2009, 03:47 PM
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tallulah
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Originally Posted by Barbara52 View Post
Suunds like you handled it pretty well all things considered. {hugs}
Thank you for the hugs..

I'm quite proud of myself...

And I was actually laughing as I typed it. What a ridiculous state of affairs. As my Al-Anon fellow said 'you are detaching... so he is feeling fear upset etc. and has the inability to express it; he is trying to control how you leave; taking your inventory etc. etc. ... set your boundaries with him and then leave him to it'.

My eyes have been opened..
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