Originally Posted by
dslalonde 
Buddah, you are right, everytime he falls there is a pillow under him. I am guilty as charged. And yes, he does leave the dog, but it seems to be the only thing he relates to. I only see glimpes of the son i once had. We have asked him to leave many times. We are in a new state and not many friends here. No family around and i refuse to give up on him. I want him back, I know he wants it too, but where do we go for this?? I am looking for direction. Where do we seek help?
Yellow Pages-substance abuse. If it's a question of money, the Salvation Army runs rehab facilities all over the country.
It's not a question of giving up on him or not loving him. Try reposting your original in the
friends and family of substance abusers forum, you can connect with other Moms there.