Buddah, you are right, everytime he falls there is a pillow under him. I am guilty as charged. And yes, he does leave the dog, but it seems to be the only thing he relates to. I only see glimpes of the son i once had. We have asked him to leave many times. We are in a new state and not many friends here. No family around and i refuse to give up on him. I want him back, I know he wants it too, but where do we go for this?? I am looking for direction. Where do we seek help?