Originally Posted by
Ago 
Something that has become apparent to me over time, for one reason or another, generally speaking this is the wrong forum to look for a successful relationship with a recovered alcoholic.
When someone posted that in the last thread, I got kind of a resentment, but generally speaking it's the truth, there are one or two notable exceptions, but here is the wrong place to look for "success stories" that involve relationships with sober people.
Thanks, that was the thread I was thinking about.
And you are right. Those who are sucessful in terms of staying in a relationship with a recovering A aren't the one who post in this section. Its a sad truth that those posting in here are the ones for whom the relationship either isn't working or who chose end a relationship already, leading to a different definition of success and happy ending.