He has never been (physically) abusive, however my counselor tells me that I describe a very emotionally/verbally abusive relationship. What are the signs that it could escalate?
My councelor told me that there were "Red Flags" being thown up all over the place. I was clueless.
Like you my AH has never been physical, but my councelor told me I should be prepared (even though we are seperated). He thought telling my older dd who to call incase I felt something wasn't going right and having a code so not to upset AH would be helpful.
Something like "dd can you get the laundry out of the wash" That way it gives her a reason to leave the room to make the call.
You are doing great!!
:praying