Hi Marie
Just reading in F&F again, don't normally post but wanted to say well done for getting out. You are right it is completely insane, hopefully one day he will realise this but only when he is ready to get help, and hopefully for him that help will not be the usual crap of trying to analyse why he drinks, job's too hard, missus doesn't understand him, life unfair etc. and helping him to realise he is in the grips of a physical addicition/disease that can only be controlled by not drinking.
Anyways good luck, hope other F&F members read your post and do the same for them, rather than hanging around for the miracle which will never happen, i say will never, that's wrong...he could be the exception to the rule and the one in 10000 that do suddenly get better and everything turns out ok for both of you together, roulette wheel 1-10000 pick a number and keep spinning! That's insanity too!
