It's funny you said that Zencat...I find that i tend to be able to be more honest, more receptive and learn more new ways to grow on line here at SR...then after months and months those things start showing up in my f2f AA groups and relationships...then after some time there, i am able to make those changes at work, in the family and stuff like that.
The infinate ways people work things out is what gives me such hope for sobriety and life....Thank god there is more than one way to skin a cat....
ooops now i have offended the godless, poor zencat, least and a variety of others in one sentance.
Bam....I wait patiently for your return...you too DK :ghug