Originally Posted by
kittycat1164 
Nope, no maintenence for me. He was drunk in court and no one could tell... judge says to we should file bankruptcy.....
Well that's unfortunate. I guess fight it if at all possible. ANd in the meantime, assume this is what you will ahve going forward and figure out how to make life better. Perhaps filing for bankruptcy would help you. Check it out with a bankruptcy attorney. It's not the end of the world to go thru it. I did and came out fine.
Figure out how to improve your financial situation. I know the job market sucks right now, but work on your resume and start looking. What other ways can you find to earn money? Can you qualify for assistance of any sort? Food stamps, etc are there for folks like you who need it.
I hope you find some ways to improve your situation.