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"He had a tough life"
I also got that one from a friend that knows an exAH bf. "He's had it tough". "He is not evil, only young". As if that was an excuse for abusive behaviour. It isn't.
I had it tough too, as many people here and we are not harming anyone out there.
If you believe in God, why not let God take care of him? Its his job. Your job is to take care of you and I am glad you are posting here. It means something inside you is changing.
Hugs!