Soaber, I have to be the comical one here.........buy her a viberator and say it is in exchange for one night of uninterupted sleep......sweetie you just need to give YOU a break, from it all, pressure is pressure tell her just how you did us, and if she doesnt understand then tell her look I care for you and all but this is too much pressure......good luck..........
Hugs,
Pamm