I hear you SoberforME. I used to have sex a lot more often.....because I drank a lot! Ever since I quit drinking, and it's been a month, my sex drive is GONE! My girlfriend keeps saying the same things...I'm just hoping once I get my sh!t together, the desire for intimacy will return. Luckily for me, my partner is understanding. I hope once you speak to yours, she will understand.