Originally Posted by
Toomutch 
not expect you to be a robot for her desires.
That's what I tell mine. Maybe you can tell her to cut you some slack on nights where you have to get up early the next day and you can promise to..uhmm...put out on certain nights. I don't think women understand how much pressure they can put on us to perform. Personally, at 36 I have trouble sometimes getting in the mood. Especially when things get busy in life. I need to be seduced. Maybe if she made herself up and wore something sleezy and flirted a little first it would help?