Marlie,
I feel so much of you pain. My 18 yr old daughter went to rehab in december..her therapist recomended the same route for her. She did spend anoher 30 days in rehab before going to her sober house, but she is now living her sober house. She is doing well but my dreams for her have changed. I am just living one day at a time right now, but I am hoping to let those dreams come again.