Hello & welcome!
I am glad you have found this site. I had to smile (in an understanding kinda way!) when I read your story- you sound like me!
I removed every trace of me from our home 2 years ago-every picture etc when my abf had a crack relapse. He quickly sorted himself out, so we got back tog.
he was okay for 2years-
but recently he relapsed....you just never know with an addict....I've left again-I couldn't watch him destroy himself. I got a text from him-'I am sitting in an empty home with nothing, you have taken our babies (dogs), where is all your stuff?'
...he is now detoxed...&working on recovery
What will happen next? Will this continue every couple of years? Do I keep on having to remove every trace of me in our home?
Soo many questions!
Thankfully I have found SR, like myself I am sure you will gain a wealth of knowledge about addiction and be able to make the right decision.
I am sorry you are going through this....you sound strong and its good you recognise that you will not continue to enable him.
Keep on reading here!
Hugs