((Macgirl)))
I'm a recovering crack addict, and Anvil is right...This IS how he is..I was just as bad, although I didn't drink...that would have messed up my crack high.
He's doing you a favor by not seeing you. My XABF (the one I was with, and did crack with) is almost 50 years old, and would still be smoking crack if he wasn't locked up, right now.
You can't make a peson get clean...you just can't. No one can, but the addict themselves.
He is living the life of a die-hard crack addict. I've been there, until I hit my bottom...because the people who loved me LET me. I found recovery, and I've got almost 2 years clean...only because everyone who loved me, got out of my way and let me fall on my face, and find a way to get back on my feet. They have supported my RECOVERY....they refused to support my addiction.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy