Macgirl,
I am sorry for what you are going through, I know it is hard when you love someone. To see what an addict is doing to their lives is unreal, but you are not going to change him until he is ready to change. Read the sticky notes above. If I was you I would get as far away from this person as I could, he is going to drag you down to a place you don't need to go. He will lie, steal and break your heart. Save your love for someone who can give you the same in return.........sorry to sound harsh but the truth is if you stay with him it will get worse. You only have a few months invested in this person, if you stay and even if he gets cleaned up you are looking at a life time of IFssssss read what some of the girls on here have gone through you don't want it....just cut your ties and move on. (((hugs)))