Anna,
I think this is something I really needed to hear this morning! Although I don't feel that my way is the "only way" (as it's got me drunk in the past).... I get a little too passionate when I hear of someone else's situation(s) that seem unfair or bad advice given to them, or what have you. I tend to "react" instead of "respond"... a recent example was Tortoises thread and my words written immediately after reading it.
I will take to heart what you have posted here and work on "me" today with how I can be a better person to others and lend help, love and care instead of negativity towards a situation they may be going through!
Thank you, Anna! For me, I needed to read this so I can be a better member of "our family" here on SR!
:ghug3