There are days when, Lord forgive me, I just want to know that my BFs addict son has been locked up and gets to sit there and think about what he has done to his entire family. However, that's not going to happen on my terms. Whatever happens to him happens, and I have no control. Still, the anger and injustice I feel are pretty strong sometimes.
Someone here posted once that resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. What I am trying to do is just concentrate on me and my life....making better choices for myself and trying to enjoy the good things and people in my life.
Concentrate on the good things and people in your life, and work at not being surprised by what she does or what happens to her.
Hugs, HG