as for enabling...
do addicts move from person to person looking to find an enabler? like my now ex gf. if she is indeed hanging with her friend's newly exbf, can it be because she can hide things from him since he doesnt know the extent of her issues? he has a house, she is crashing in a small unkempt apt with a friend. it seems like she will use him for her own means. i wish i could see this blow up in her face.