Welcome Blindsided
I'm glad you've found us.
There are many here with more experience than I when it comes to dealing with a spouses addiction (my addict is my son).
I'm glad he has decided to stop. And I'm glad he's willing to do the work.
I wish there were guarantees, but there are none.
I've come to learn that no one ever "knows" when or what will hit, even if "today" our loved ones are not addicts.
It can sneak up on the best of us.
The best I can do is live in today.
Stick around...there's some great people to meet here.
(((Hugs)))