Originally Posted by
CatsPajamas 
My sponsor used to ask me this: what if THIS was the time he was going to hit his bottom and be ready to take his own action to get help, but YOU swooped in one more time to rescue him?
I have to say, this sentence has stuck with me all day. I'm so guilty of doing just that. I have been his safety net over and over again, and before me it was his best friend, and before him it was his ex-wife, and before her it was his parents. For all the complaining he does about not "getting" anything from other people, he has been very privileged and fortunate his whole life.
It's up to the court, and then it's up to him!!