If it were me I would stay out of it....completely. His problem his consequenses.
Trying to get him sent to rehab when he doesn't want it isn't going to help anything.
and if he goes to jail he will NOT be the first A that had to detox there.
I would let go and let God in this one
I told my AH that I wanted to know nothing about his DUI that it was his and for him to deal with.
Now what are you going to do for you today?