just want to put in my two cents worth-but isn't this the whole part of why we are here? the al-anon program is meant to be for positive growth with the premise that as we grow and change and "improve" then the alcoholic has to change as well. so as we all know how it feels to be waiting for the other shoe to drop...maybe we should be grateful for the subtle changes that began with us!!! Al-anon slogan...Let It Begin With Me! Congrats blessed-this may be what you've really been hoping for. just remember to keep the focus on YOUR recovery.
