isitme.....I get the same "expecting something" in return for doing the things that any husband and father should be doing. The fact that there is such a stark contrast between how he WAS behaving and how he IS behaving should not be a reason for owing him favors. In the past, it has always led to him accusing me of being cold and not responsive enough intimately. So far that hasn't been an issue this time, but like LTD said....."two weeks is nothing".
I'm thankful for you that "get it", and for those of you who can look at it from the outside and shed some light for me. This (SR) is such an amazing place.