Originally Posted by
bearfeet 
Toughchoices, I have to believe that mine 'can't' control it because the hurt that thinking he 'can' would be too unbearable for me at the moment......
If he can control it, and chooses not to out of a lack of love and respect, that says absolutely nothing about you. Nothing. It does not mean that you are bad or unworthy or unlovable. Absolutely not.
We are more than what others make us.
Hang in there!
-TC