HI Shivaya! Glad to see you posting
You did the right thing!
This is a boundry I had to set about a year ago or more. Simply: NOONE RIDES IN THE CAR WHEN AH IS DRIVING.
my older dd knows this and so does AH (and now that we are seperated there really isn't an opportunity).
Last night he wanted to take dd to a b-ball game and he said he would have his dad come in drive if I would let her go w/him. She already had plans so that wasn't an issue....but my point is it is something he has come to live with.
As far as where do you go from here??? I am not sure let your ds guide you. Maybe counceling would be good? I am way past due to getting my older dd in. This serves as a good reminder
Thanks!!
keep posting