Originally Posted by
SJLady 
His biggest problem is that he lets his pride get in the way of recovery. It's almost as though he's offended that he has to attend AA daily in order to stay sober. Well it was working for him, so he knows what he has to do.
I'm sorry to hear that one of his character defects is getting in the way of his recovery. I suffered a great deal of pride when I first started attending Al-Anon. My husband wasn't like the rest of the losers the people in the meeting discussed. I was not at my bottom. I had a nice house. A secure job. My husband only got drunk after 6 pm, etc. etc.
He knows what he has to do. It's his choice as to whether or not he does it. Are you doing all you can for yourself? I sure hope so, because you deserve a serene and peaceful life .... regardless of his mindset or his circumstances.