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Old 02-18-2009, 05:54 PM
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devastated
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Amen to what Freedom said. She is so right on when she said she got it together only when there was no one left to help!!

There's the answer! Move on with your life and take care of your child. I am happy that you took the baby with you ,as I think it's too risky to leave a child in the care of an addict!

My son is 46 years old and I have picked up after his messes for years and years. It's only been the past months that I flat refuse to do one thing to help make his life comfortable.

It's now or never and it's all up to him! We're not doing the addict any favors by giving them a soft place to land.

Praying for you and Hubby

Hugs, Devastated
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